“The Siren”
A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play-always having to be
responsible, in control, and rational. The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure
because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her
presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the man feels transported
to a world of pure pleasure. She is dangerous, and in pursuing her energetically the
man can lose control of himself., something he yearns to do. The Siren is a mirage;
she lures men by cultivating the male libido by embodying his fantasy.
“The Ideal Lover”
Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn down with age. They
find themselves disappointed by people, events, reality, which can not match their
youthful ideas. Ideal Lovers thrive on people’s broken dreams, which become lifelong
fantasies. You long for romance? Adventure? Lofty spiritual communion? The Ideal
Lover reflects your fantasy. He or she is an artist in creating the illusion you
require, idealizing your portrait. In a world of disenchantment and baseness, there
is limitless seductive power following the path of the Ideal Lover.
“The Coquette”
The ability to delay satisfaction is the ultimate art of seduction-while waiting, the
victim is held in thrall. Coquettes are the grand masters of the game, orchestrating
a back-and-forth movement between hope and frustration. The bait with the promise of
reward-the hope of physical pleasure, happiness, fame by association, power-all of
which, however, proves elusive; yet this only makes their targets pursue them more.
Coquettes seem totally self sufficient: they do not need you, they seem to say, and
their narcissism proves devilishly attractive. You want to conquer them but they
hold the cards. The strategy of the Coquette is never to offer total satisfaction.
Imitate the alternating heat and coolness of the Coquette and you will keep the
seduced at your heels.
