You need to ask your man questions, how else will you know what he likes. If you pay attention to him, this will not be that difficult.
Is he into sports, cars, exercising, etc… What does he watch on TV? What does he talk about? What excites him?
What kind of career is he pursuing? Is he in college? What goals does he have in life?
If you learn enough about a man and he feels secure talking to you that is the first step.
Do not stalk your man on Facebook or Twitter. Nobody likes to be stalked it makes them uncomfortable.
a) How you look.
If you get your man, you want to keep your man. You need to be your sexiest. Men love surprises, show up at his door wearing nothing but a trench coat and he will be blowing you up the next day. You better believe the hoochie down the street or at the club has her skin tight dress and heels on. She is the one trying to take your man and will do it if you’re not careful. You don’t need to look a certain way but you know what features you have that stand out. A short skirt will enhance your legs, a low-cut sexy dress will enhance your breasts, and tight pants will enhance your butt.
b) How you talk or don’t talk.
Less is more in this department. This is where you can hook a man. Men love to talk and they love a woman that can listen.
Listen with your face. Do not let your eyes wander around the room, or use exaggerated movements with your eyebrows.
Maintain good eye contact and face your man with your whole body.
Stop all other activity-that includes talking.
Initiate conversation that encourages them to talk.
Pay attention to verbal cues (85% of communication is non-verbal.
c) What you do.
If you can cook, that will hook a man. The fastest way to a mans heart is through his stomach as the old saying goes.
Give him a massage and he will be more encouraged to give the favor back.(men love to have their head rubbed).
Watch sports with him, or poker, or boxing, whatever he enjoys doing. You can act interested if necessary, but maybe their is something that you enjoy that also interests him.
Where are you going to find a man. The same clubs, bars and getting no results. You need to switch it up. Go to a coffee house or a music festival. Move away from the same ole same ole and you will meet someone that you never would have met. This could be the only thing holding you back.
Do not get cocky. Every man wants a woman with self-confidence, but not conceited. Confidence is one of the most important factors in finding the man you want. Do not be afraid to approach a guy, 9 times out of 10 he is scared to approach you.
Create Some Common Ground.
You need to come to some type of common ground. If you are always giving (or taking) this will not lead to a successful relationship. Communication is the most important aspect of a relationship. I know it’s cliche but you need to open up the lines of communication. Especially in the bedroom. Men get offended extremely easy, so be careful. You could offend him into not talking to you again believe it or not.
Those are some tips that should help you find the man you want, and keep him.
Have fun and let me know how it goes!
Nadia said on May 5, 2012
I’m social and humorous and would like to have friends that would not mind hanging their time with me whenever possible.